My girlfriend really likes to give me blow jobs. I never ask her for them, she just likes to do it and I sometimes will return the favor. But to be honest I really don't like to do it to her every time. There's just something about it that's not appealing for me, but she just get so angry and upset that I won't do it all the time. I want to make her happy, but not like that.

One question: Are you willing to give up all the oral sex that she is giving you?

I am going to take a wild guess and say that your answer is no, and so the next question is why should she give up hers? I mean there's got to be a little give and take here, so you might want to reconsider your stance on the whole oral stimulation thing. You say your girlfriend likes to give you head, and basically just goes down on you without your even asking. So consider yourself a luck lucky man. I think some guys out there are wondering why you are not yet falling on your keens to thank God, or even buying her a car! But seriously, your girlfriend probably doesn’t put 'give boyfriend blowjob' on the top of her list of favorite things to do either. She may very well like them, but really probably likes them so much because they give you pleasure and she is controlling that.

So the question now is why don't you like giving her oral pleasure? Do you get lock jaw? Does she...well not smell so good down there? If this is the case, try to consider that she is probably dealing with the same things while getting you off. If it is a really bad smell though ...tell her to see a doctor.

Now if you really just don't like it, and will never like it, then that is certainly your prerogative and you are going to have to figure out other ways for you to please her besides you know "munching the carpet" (LOL- I always thought that term was hilarious). Ask her what else might please her and maybe you should consider using some battery operated devices out there that might mimic the tongue. Have you have heard of the Pocket Rocket?

If you show her that you are trying to please her, then you can still count on her continuing to go down on you; because she knows she will be satisfied. Then I would recommend that you count your blessings and start to include "thank you god" during your oral pleasing sessions.