Got this question last week.

Simply:
Dear Bite Babe:
Does size matter to you?


I think this debate will go on till the world explodes, and it's the end of civilization as we know it.

Study after study, survey after survey I think we will be left with the same information: An erect penis size is 5.5 inches, and some women have been with guys who they say are "too small' and some that are "too big". Cliches abound, "it's not the size of the waves, it's the motion of the ocean", "good things come in small packages", "bigger is better", etc..
I wonder if we can compare penis size to breast size? Is a coveted larger chest really better? Apparently in the bedroom, when stimulating a girl with smaller breasts they will be far more stimulated than girls with bigger breasts. But I digress. Size is a great debate, and I hate to give a diplomatic reply but I think my answer is ...it all depends on the guy.

In chats with my lady friends we conclude that there are those guys who have small units that just don't know what the hell they are doing. They just give less endowed men a bad rap. Because we all agree that there are some men out there with smaller packages who are "a-amazing in bed" as one girl recounts: "My guy has a rock hard body and a gorgeous face. But he's not much bigger than a glue stick. At first, I'll admit, it was disappointing -honestly, I can't fell that much when he enters me - BUT! He is a relentless pursuer of the female orgasm. Before him, I actually thought I was incapable of an orgasm. Now I can't not have one, given his skills with oral sex and foreplay. Who cares about his size, he more than makes up for it and I am happier sexually than I've ever been".
Then again there are the larger size guys, and the largeness can actually be hard to handle as my friend offered, "My boyfriend tried to warn me about how big he was, but I figured he was just having delusions of grandeur. Turned out it's about the girth of a Coke can and a good 10 inches long erect. When I first saw it I was shocked NOT turned on. When we eventually tried to have sex, it didn't work. Eventually we got the hang of it, and now it's good. The best position is me on top, so I have control. Unfortunately for him I have to approach fellatio like I'm licking around the edges of an ice cream cone - anything more is just not possible."

awwww happy endings.

The moral of the story, gentlemen, is unless you're the size of pinky (then you might want to consider plastic surgery) then I would probably work on your skills and confidence. And we can err..blow this whole debate out the water by offering up the phrase: "she's not really interested in your penis size, she' interested in the size of your wallet". Hummm.