Dear Bite Babe:

I just started dating this girl and she told me she is bi-sexual. Score! All I am thinking about now is three-way, how can I set this up?

Wooooo...easy cowboy! I don't think that dating a bi-chick automatically equals three-way. However, I would say that your chances are certainly much higher than with a straight girl who has never even kissed another chick.

I don't know if you've ever had a three-some before, but if you haven't, I would really think about whether or not you really want to follow through with this. While it might seem like a no-brainer, a three some could turn out to be your worst nightmare. I mean, how serious are you about this girl? If you really like her, and want this to work in the long run I would consider not even approaching the subject for now anyway. I've heard some horror stories of couples whose relationships were destroyed by a wild and crazy three-some night. On the one hand it could be the hottest thing ever; on the other it could drive you or your girlfriend totally insane with jealousy. The memory of your night could be so burned in your brain, you or she, might not be able to get over it...you get the picture. One more point is that your bisexual girlfriend might just leave you for another woman. Imagine that!

All warnings aside, if you still really want this to happen I would talk to her about your fantasy. I don't recommend you talking about how hot her friend is, and suggest her for the event. No no no, as I rule I would say it is better to go with someone outside of her close group of friends, someone neutral. Just try and let her know how hot you think she is, and how much her being bisexual turns you on and you accept that about her. If she give you the impression that she is all for it, then try and check out some potential three-some partners with her. Let her pick girls she thinks is attractive, and she can approach them. There may be someone she has in mind anyway. Now if you are lucky enough to score this three-way, don't fuck it up by trying to get all the attention. You gotta give, to receive. So be sensitive to it, and have fun! Good luck!